I'm a girl and not an object

*_I am not an object and sure as hell won't stand being treated as one_*
Hurt, betrayed or lost? What am I to people? To be shrunken by society to my very body shape and size? To be deemed good or bad based on looks?  To be hired on how short my skirt is rather than my intellect?
Am I a mere object? A toy? It seems as though I am put into a game, a competition I never signed up for. I'm running someone else's  race in their shoes.
I've been taught not to judge a person unless you have walked in their shoes. Well, let me tell the world that we are all wearing the same shoes. Same size, shape and colour and all of us are facing the same problem- norms of the society.
Honestly tell me, If I'm skinny and pretty why am I hot? Am I an object that heats up stuff? but on the other hand, if I'm fat I'm ugly. No, I can be Fat and pretty too.
Plus not everything is based on looks. Well, some of the sweetest people I have met are the ones I judged on character, not on appearance.
Looks are always the first impression, but what if you met the right person at the wrong time? What if she is one of the most beautiful people you might ever meet but you met her when she was crying with the little makeup she wears streaming down her face? What if...
Shaming a person on looks is not a way to feel superior it's a way of showing the world you are insecure and partly even a coward.
To all those people being shamed based on their appearances well remember everyone has flaws and that's what makes them stand out. That's what makes them unique. That's what makes YOU unique.
So what am I? I'm surely not an object and won't stand to be treated as one


_Written this based on personal experience_.

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